your question wrongly .... from what i read just now ...

The man can have it only once [orgasm] and won't be able to continue anymore, but the woman can many [orgasms] .

 

The man would feel that he left something already with the woman, will start cooling down quick. The woman on the other side,take more time to be .. you know ... and you can't just jump directly in bed and start instantly what ... you know ... something should be before all of that.

 

The woman won't more than just having ... she wants to feel that she is loved, that the man want more than just sleeping with her ... that there is an exchange of emotions between the two, sharing of the feelings as well. That is why she needs her man to hug her, cuddle her, kiss her and never let go until she is fine and want to change it herself ...

 

The woman should not think that there is something wrong if the man get away, the man should feel as well that he should not do that as well. It is not about finishing that and goodnight and let's give our backs to each other ... there is more into sleeping in bed ...

 

------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)