no answer to this question. Life had it's ups and downs and you can't keep everything in the same level everyday and night. We are trying our best to keep it that way, everyone got his/her own special way to keep it up like that depending on your partner.
You have to sacrifice a lot to keep it that way ... but don't lower yourself or lose your dignity in the name of love, there is a huge difference ...
When you do the good deeds with good people, they would appreciate it ... Do the same with mean people and they will insult you ...
The good ones will know how nice, good and friendly you are and that it's your nature to be like that and got nothing in mind when you do the people any good.
The mean ones, will think that you did that because you are weak, afraid or want something from them ... and they will abuse you ...
From what I see here, frankly ... your guy got the wrong idea about marriage. I can ask my wife for help and I'm sure that she will if she will see that I need help because we love each other.
I would never think of using her because of that, actually I'm looking for a good future for me and my family so I won't trouble any later ... Taking care of these things are the man responsibility [mandatory] but it is not the woman obligation [optional].
Today's life is really hard and it's true that it got a lot of difficulties, but sharing the expenses and everything should be between the two and upon their agreement. Are you two sharing the expenses only? What about saving money? Is he saving that for both of you or only himself? You got my point here i guess ...
If you are not ready to get married and take responsibility towards your wife and kids ... then forget it and stay single ...
Don't drag others into your own problems and make it their problems too.
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
no answer to this question. Life had it's ups and downs and you can't keep everything in the same level everyday and night. We are trying our best to keep it that way, everyone got his/her own special way to keep it up like that depending on your partner.
You have to sacrifice a lot to keep it that way ... but don't lower yourself or lose your dignity in the name of love, there is a huge difference ...
When you do the good deeds with good people, they would appreciate it ... Do the same with mean people and they will insult you ...
The good ones will know how nice, good and friendly you are and that it's your nature to be like that and got nothing in mind when you do the people any good.
The mean ones, will think that you did that because you are weak, afraid or want something from them ... and they will abuse you ...
From what I see here, frankly ... your guy got the wrong idea about marriage. I can ask my wife for help and I'm sure that she will if she will see that I need help because we love each other.
I would never think of using her because of that, actually I'm looking for a good future for me and my family so I won't trouble any later ... Taking care of these things are the man responsibility [mandatory] but it is not the woman obligation [optional].
Today's life is really hard and it's true that it got a lot of difficulties, but sharing the expenses and everything should be between the two and upon their agreement. Are you two sharing the expenses only? What about saving money? Is he saving that for both of you or only himself? You got my point here i guess ...
If you are not ready to get married and take responsibility towards your wife and kids ... then forget it and stay single ...
Don't drag others into your own problems and make it their problems too.
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)