Qatarisun....No, we dont have kids yet...about sharing bills, I agree with you it comes from mutual understanding & I dont mind doing it or even pays much more than he is coz i know when people get married...you become one in all aspects. But sometimes, its hurt if u heard from your loveones counting on you for what he spent or blaming you for the money's gone away take for instant car maintenance........

Sky, i couldnt disagree from you further that when it comes to love we should follow our intellect mind & shall not take other advise....However, sometime when people are so lost, advise from someone can enlighten our minds of course that depends on which advise we will adapt...good or bad?

I did try to ask him for join account, the only answer i received is...Nothing remains from his monthly income so what else he can produce for that?! Again, i just kept quiet in one side..............