This is not about being in a closet, I feel that it is more about cheating, betraying the wife and the family. They should have enough courage before they get married to accept and admit that they are gays.

Don't think that anything would be a good excuse for any of them to do that later, life free or die gaaaayyyy ...

------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)