CB, u asked " How would you like it if someone likes you  for your personality and he
is good looking but says wow she is nice but she does not have the
b***s I like or she is to thin or to fat or her hair is green or skin
blue or her skin is spotty or whatever you would be hurt and moreover
probably uspet."

Well, no I wouldn't be hurt because it's the truth, I don't have the qualities he's looking for and that's okay, I'll find someone else who wants the looks I have and vice versa.  Looks and personality have nothing to do with eachother. You don't have to choose between them, u can have both. I don't want a guy who's ugly but has a great personality nor do I want a guy who looks gorgeous but has an awful personality. As Alexa said...balance is the key. 

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield