novita I wasn't suggesting otherwise honey! I was actually complimenting you on how you approach people. And I respect the fact that your nice to everyone not for what they can do for you but what you can do for them. I very much had a best friend at University (HK chinese) who was very much as charming as you seem to be. I miss her terribly!

Oh right Alexa! I wish you the best wherever you may be then!