Just deleting BJchick from the list will not solve the issue. It just might get worse. It is not the direct approach to solving the issue here. Lets say the BF was humble enough to delete her, then what?
The BF and BJchick did not sin against his GF for doing that in the past. The mistake probably was telling that kind of story, add the very sarcastic or boastful manner. The girl deserves an apology and at the same time the BF still deserves to be accepted and forgiven for what he said. Otherwise it will keep on hurting herself deep inside. Besides, the couple were both drunk and wasted when the BF told the dirty story. Some people tend to lose control over their secrets when drunk and they begin to think what they say will not be an issue. On the bright side, at least, the guy opened up one of his dirty secrets. There could be more to be shared, same with the GF, IF THEY ARE BOTH OPEN ABOUT IT. Otherwise it is better to shut up.
"Accepting someone for their good qualities is ordinary. Accepting someone for everything that he/she is, is the full manifestation LOVE."
"Love is the main ingredient. Honest Communication, Humility and Maturity completes the recipe."
Analysis:
Just deleting BJchick from the list will not solve the issue. It just might get worse. It is not the direct approach to solving the issue here. Lets say the BF was humble enough to delete her, then what?
The BF and BJchick did not sin against his GF for doing that in the past. The mistake probably was telling that kind of story, add the very sarcastic or boastful manner. The girl deserves an apology and at the same time the BF still deserves to be accepted and forgiven for what he said. Otherwise it will keep on hurting herself deep inside. Besides, the couple were both drunk and wasted when the BF told the dirty story. Some people tend to lose control over their secrets when drunk and they begin to think what they say will not be an issue. On the bright side, at least, the guy opened up one of his dirty secrets. There could be more to be shared, same with the GF, IF THEY ARE BOTH OPEN ABOUT IT. Otherwise it is better to shut up.
"Accepting someone for their good qualities is ordinary. Accepting someone for everything that he/she is, is the full manifestation LOVE."
"Love is the main ingredient. Honest Communication, Humility and Maturity completes the recipe."