ok, maybe the written word does not convey very well my fellings on the matter.

I have nothing against the women, I was just providing information regarding a different opinion, if I knew it was not allowed to do this then this 'love in' thread could continue without controversy.

I might start a thread entitled "Black is white", anyone who dares suggests different  or brings forth an opposing view will be countered with - 

"This thread was created to bring a positive message and what you posted takes away from that."

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.