I coughed in a queue once and this very well educated and young Qatari said, 'she wonders why she is not being served when she was here first'

Wow! he then taught me to say 'I am invisible' in Arabic! LOL

sorry to hijack

anyway there are plenty of sucessful mixed relationships.... it is about getting needs fufilled and realising potential.....

I need someone who is kind and loving and looks good in shorts...

however in a mixed relationship it is hard to separate these two factors:

a) behaviour based on individuality

b) behaviour based on uprbringing

nature vs nuture.....

and this can get confusing.