Thanks QT....yes both families accepting......no negatives at all.

It has bee difficult and my ...hopefully new wife......has had to put up with a lot from me.....i was with wife 30 years then she decides to leave me......not her choice....i got a bit, dont know how to say, but was a bit disoriented for awhile then get offer to work here.

As i said met many ladies here but have settled on this one.....who knows what is going to happen but she worth it. Dont get me wrong...different cultures can be difficult. but also good.......it needs work thats all.

Take care always