why would someone have an extra marital affair and still be in a marriage?it doesnt make sense.marriage is a vow to be faithful,committed and loyal to one person.if that doesnt happen then there is no marriage.

if one feels an urge to be unfaithful then it clearly shows that there is no love between the partners .unfaithfulness happens when there is a serious problem in the relationship and in most cases it is more of a sex problem than anything else.