Hi Shane,

I am sorry to hear about your pain. Its hard to advice on how to wrong a right, especially when you dont know the wrong.

I did something to anger my bf and he broke up with me and acted out as well.  I never contact people that dont want to be contacted.  My reason is my pride.  If you broke up with me, no matter how much I love you. I cant and wont try to make you stay. Not that way anyway.  Give that person their space to realize they over reacted, dont give them too much power by calling and begging too much.  They may have forgiven you but want to make you sit it out for awhile. When he knows you will take him back, he can take his time coming back because you will be there. 

I suggest not contacting him anymore.  If you did something so awful, then learn from that and dont do it with the next. If the love is true, he is just cooling off and will be back.  Men are not like us, they need space to think...

I hope that helps