and that's what's going to happen.....but I just want to avoid the dangers owen was mentioning (the one man showing becoming the norm, as I am not superman)...AND, more importantly, trying to understand why poeple do this sort of thing....is there a social stygma attched to saying I've never done it before, can somenone show me how please?

Stay safe all.

Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?