"The fact still remains that 65% of english would not marry or even be friends with a non english/white person."

Where did you that statistic from? Absolute rubbish. Unless you have actually spoken to the whole population of the UK in person, which I doubt because your "Upper Middle class" life has given you a huge chip on you shoulder. Ive re read your post several times now and it is littered with racist remarks towards your host country

"If you are not from the uk then you should hear first hand what a racist and unfriendly society it is here."

Heres a first hand account......its not as bad as you are making out.

"Lets call it the english social disability that meeting or leaving a very dry english conversation inevitably carries with it a degree of discomfort. As a result the best places to meet the english are in pubs (where a different set of rules exist), at parties (where alcohol is almost always involved), and through friends."

Nice stereotyping.

"Since I am clearly not "working class" (hate that word), well spoken, good manners, kids go to a "white" private school yet incredibly simple and humble in terms of housing, car, clothes and personality."

LOL... Im professional, well spoken, well mannered, kids in a private school, but I am most definately working class and extremely proud of it. Maybe you should try speaking to my friends and I, ( you know the working class) who grew up together in a very multicultural school, in the same city this whole story started and remain friends til this day.

"We are not invited to some of the parties because of racism and very few of my neighbors have bothered to be friendly."

Heres some classic English sarcasim for you. Its not your religion or colour that's preventing the invites coming is it. Whats with all the "upper middle class" quotes. Here lies the problem. What has class got to do with ths whole topic.

If its that bad, go home, but then we both know its not really that bad dont we!