I fully agree with you when it comes to humanity and manners .... but sometimes as you mentioned , it is the need which force us to hide an eye .. but not when it comes to degnity and honor .

I feel very sorry for what he passed through and also sorry tosay that some people taking advantage of human needs ...

about me ? I never abused or took advantae of others ..
I am here for 21 years and proude to say that all my subordinates are my freinds and I respect each an every one in my team or other departments .

although being a senior manager , I am also an employee and after all human .

good luck