I do agree that I would not have liked to be held onto liked they did. But sometimes when you are in such a rage, you forget all the things you may have said or done. I also do not think that shouting abuse really helped her.
On quite a few occasions when I thought I was in the right and wanted to put my point across, I tried to do so without shouting, usually if you are calm with them they will respond the same. You will find that when a person gets mad & shouts, the other person does the same.
It may have also helped when they did call the police to pursue the matter further.
Having said all that, I have not and will not be going to the Lulu :(
I do agree that I would not have liked to be held onto liked they did. But sometimes when you are in such a rage, you forget all the things you may have said or done. I also do not think that shouting abuse really helped her.
On quite a few occasions when I thought I was in the right and wanted to put my point across, I tried to do so without shouting, usually if you are calm with them they will respond the same. You will find that when a person gets mad & shouts, the other person does the same.
It may have also helped when they did call the police to pursue the matter further.
Having said all that, I have not and will not be going to the Lulu :(
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