I think you can have both and sympathise a lot with each other.
However when you work and have household chores you can both get very busy and don't spend enough 'together time'.
We put so much into our work etc and a fraction of that same energy into relationships.
You come in tired have to do the washing up and you aren't looking your best and you put on your pyjamas and you fall asleep.
It becomes routine...
Which reminds me I desperately need some over haul work and servicing at a beauty salon.
I think you can have both and sympathise a lot with each other.
However when you work and have household chores you can both get very busy and don't spend enough 'together time'.
We put so much into our work etc and a fraction of that same energy into relationships.
You come in tired have to do the washing up and you aren't looking your best and you put on your pyjamas and you fall asleep.
It becomes routine...
Which reminds me I desperately need some over haul work and servicing at a beauty salon.