I think marriage will be successful if you do or you can do the things like retahnem said. I think you married in young age. Two years marriage is not well enough to know each other(husband and wife) Marriage is not like a game to play, that you alone will hold on the control as you like. Men are naturally bossy. And you mentioned you are helping him for everything. Of course, husband and wife should help each other. And we wives, should not sum up what we share for our husband, especially if you are sharing more because you are earning more. Husbands expects wives to understands them, to serve them, to listen to them, to love them whatever they are. Husbands in return should be passionate, understanding, romantic, caring, kind and a good provider above all. Both of you should give each time to listen to each problem. Problems between husband and wife should only be between you and him. Just like Qatarisun said, no one will give you the solution of your problem. You wrote here your side, we really don't know his side, unfair isn't it? You are just so upset by now that you made these statements, whilst you know it isn't right. Give yourself a time, take a glass of water and be ready to speak softly as you could and ask what has been gotten him to shout. If you started a soft voice, he too will.
Be patient to listen to what he say, and if he finished then ask him to listen to you too. Don't turn your back from him, neither let him turn his back to you. Don't ever talk of divorcing, you are young and will have a long way to go. Think of your kid not of yourself. The success of marriage is on the hands of wife. In marriage, the man is the boss, but in reality, the wife is the COMMANDER in CHIEF,,,, hey guys, anyone disagree?
I think marriage will be successful if you do or you can do the things like retahnem said. I think you married in young age. Two years marriage is not well enough to know each other(husband and wife) Marriage is not like a game to play, that you alone will hold on the control as you like. Men are naturally bossy. And you mentioned you are helping him for everything. Of course, husband and wife should help each other. And we wives, should not sum up what we share for our husband, especially if you are sharing more because you are earning more. Husbands expects wives to understands them, to serve them, to listen to them, to love them whatever they are. Husbands in return should be passionate, understanding, romantic, caring, kind and a good provider above all. Both of you should give each time to listen to each problem. Problems between husband and wife should only be between you and him. Just like Qatarisun said, no one will give you the solution of your problem. You wrote here your side, we really don't know his side, unfair isn't it? You are just so upset by now that you made these statements, whilst you know it isn't right. Give yourself a time, take a glass of water and be ready to speak softly as you could and ask what has been gotten him to shout. If you started a soft voice, he too will.
Be patient to listen to what he say, and if he finished then ask him to listen to you too. Don't turn your back from him, neither let him turn his back to you. Don't ever talk of divorcing, you are young and will have a long way to go. Think of your kid not of yourself. The success of marriage is on the hands of wife. In marriage, the man is the boss, but in reality, the wife is the COMMANDER in CHIEF,,,, hey guys, anyone disagree?