Yes time heals all wounds, and sometimes u need to give ur partner some space, but if there's an obvious problem then time will only harm the relationship because the individuals will start growing further and further apart and nothing will be resolved.
Before giving eachother some time, talk about ur relationship, how u feel and what u like and dislike about it, what u would like to change and what the other person would like to change. Just have a casual talk, no shouting no yelling just trying to understand eachother. The most important thing in those talks is ATTITUDE. If u talk with the intention of fighting then it won't work. U should listen more than talk, u should have an open mind and have the intention of trying to understand the other person.
After u've had a good long discussion, then take some time apart to think about it and see how u feel about it. I'm sure there are reasons for his anger issues and if ur patient with him and show him the love and affection he's looking for then he'll open up. Or...he might be just an ass. But from the sound of ur post, he sounds like he loves u both but doesn't know how to communicate with u properly.
Lastly, if all that doesn't work, try counseling. But divorce should be ur last resort.
Like Qatarisun said, after all said and done, it's ultimately ur decision to make. That's just my two cents worth. Good luck :)
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Yes time heals all wounds, and sometimes u need to give ur partner some space, but if there's an obvious problem then time will only harm the relationship because the individuals will start growing further and further apart and nothing will be resolved.
Before giving eachother some time, talk about ur relationship, how u feel and what u like and dislike about it, what u would like to change and what the other person would like to change. Just have a casual talk, no shouting no yelling just trying to understand eachother. The most important thing in those talks is ATTITUDE. If u talk with the intention of fighting then it won't work. U should listen more than talk, u should have an open mind and have the intention of trying to understand the other person.
After u've had a good long discussion, then take some time apart to think about it and see how u feel about it. I'm sure there are reasons for his anger issues and if ur patient with him and show him the love and affection he's looking for then he'll open up. Or...he might be just an ass. But from the sound of ur post, he sounds like he loves u both but doesn't know how to communicate with u properly.
Lastly, if all that doesn't work, try counseling. But divorce should be ur last resort.
Like Qatarisun said, after all said and done, it's ultimately ur decision to make. That's just my two cents worth. Good luck :)
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield