...Maricel, listen, I don't know whether you have to keep your marriage going on or to get divorced...
...the only thing I know for sure: no one on the earth will never give your such advice on going this way or another...it is YOUR choice and YOUR decision.. and definitely it doesn't come that easy, over a QL thread..you want QLers to decide YOUR future, future of your husband, future of YOUR daughter??? ya'ani, hey guys.. let's vote: marriage or divorce.. ok… 40 against 48.. so I am getting divorced.. insane…
Way to divorce is looooooong, baby....
You have to start from bringing up this issue to your husband in a mature way, from having a discussion with him… from analyzing yourself as retahnam said... from trying different models of behavour of acting, from working HARD on the issues… and if the problem is still unsolved, go to marriage counseller as Gypsy said...they might help your to highlight the problems, to deeper understand the roots of these problems, to suggest the ways for solving these problems... but the last decision will be YOURS, no one's else! and don't ask your friends/relatives/co-workers/QLers should you stay married or get divorced……
you know why my first “advice” was just “to listen to the man”.. coz you sound so immature…
*********************** Whatever Makes You Happy...
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...Maricel, listen, I don't know whether you have to keep your marriage going on or to get divorced...
...the only thing I know for sure: no one on the earth will never give your such advice on going this way or another...it is YOUR choice and YOUR decision.. and definitely it doesn't come that easy, over a QL thread..you want QLers to decide YOUR future, future of your husband, future of YOUR daughter??? ya'ani, hey guys.. let's vote: marriage or divorce.. ok… 40 against 48.. so I am getting divorced.. insane…
Way to divorce is looooooong, baby....
You have to start from bringing up this issue to your husband in a mature way, from having a discussion with him… from analyzing yourself as retahnam said... from trying different models of behavour of acting, from working HARD on the issues… and if the problem is still unsolved, go to marriage counseller as Gypsy said...they might help your to highlight the problems, to deeper understand the roots of these problems, to suggest the ways for solving these problems... but the last decision will be YOURS, no one's else! and don't ask your friends/relatives/co-workers/QLers should you stay married or get divorced……
you know why my first “advice” was just “to listen to the man”.. coz you sound so immature…
***********************
Whatever Makes You Happy...
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