I am looking for my own employment with housing and we have discussed marrying once I am sure I can adjust to living there. I didnt see the point in getting married just to go and hate living there then putting me and him through a divorce.

I am excited about the opportunity but I am very careful with decision I make so I am trying to get all the info and use all the resources available before getting on the plane. We are hoping to get me over this year. He is starting a new job as Director of Sales for A.G.T so he will need to get settled and he will be able to help with the efforts in finding me employment.

So we don't have intentions on illegally living together.... You guys have helped warn against that..LOL