Thanks for all the answers...just trying to help a friend of mine whom I pity much as she have no plan of filing a complaint to the "mistress" and just wanted their life be peaceful though they're facing this problem now...but "she" is the one disturbing them, calling using even her cousin, as the husband and wife still live together..this is a sacrifice on the wife's part...the worst scenario is, "the mistress" is the one having the guts to really ruin the marriage of my friend as her husband decided not to see her anymore...