LOl..yeah I thought about that after I created the username. I meant it in a totally different way but I definitely can see the humor. We want to make sure I will like it before we make both of our lives complicated with marriage. He will be there the question is will I be there. We know a couple with kids that relocated there and once his wife wasnt happy she moved back and he was alone and eventually moved back to the states. We want no regrets...So I guess I will be looking for employment with housing of my own until we decide to marry...

Thanks...