Hi -
20 will get you on a nice compound - lots of amenities.

To add to the formula list - also Nestle, which I used. No Enfamil.

Get-togethers - seems like someone is always have a coffee morning. Check out www.expatwoman.com on the Qatar chatboard to make some more "mom" friends. Good site.

Not really any water restrictions.

Good luck with the move. We like it here. Have 2 little ones.