Why does it have to be 10? I guess that if we can prioritize those and put the things that will put us in trouble with others first?

I prefer to finish my issues with people around me to have some time to look at mine. Don't want my plans to be disturbed by others and take it as an excuse to give up on going with my plans.

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)