fried unciocrn is very right! i'm here working in dubai and have known a lot of people who would want their spouses to follow them. and it's not a good idea to go together. not unless if you have enough budget. it's very hard to riska nd fail. you need to save first for your husband's visa and fare then you need to make sure that you will be financially stable before he will follow. and if both of you will already be stable, you could always bring your daughter and your mama.

i'm not really familiar with qatar but here in uae, women have greater chances in having work. so i think it's just right that you went ahead. focus on the reason why you are there. it's because of money. so what will happen if you will go home? you must talk to your mom in a nice way. i'm sure she will understand. you will have to undergo a process to adjust.