I just applied for a permit last night with my husband, who is here under my sponsorship. We were issued a joint permit, with a shared limit based on my salary, but we each received our own card. My husband just arrived and is not yet employed. If you are not employed, and if your father were willing to apply with you, perhaps you could get a joint family permit.

I have had to write a no objection letter in order for my husband to apply for a driver's license since he is here under my sponsorship, so perhaps your father could do the same for the liquor permit if you are employed and want your own permit.

If your father doesn't want you to have a permit, I think you are out of luck. :-)

As a side note, my permit was issued with a limit at well under the 10% of monthly salary I have read about. Mine was issued at about 5% of my monthly salary.