Actually he/she is impressed by your qualities... a sort of jealousy in his/her mind always remains...He/she roars to hide his/her inferiority complex & to let you down...

If you want to save your marriage, then you have to cope with this & a good solution of this dramatize situation is, leave him/her roaring with his/her filthy words...and take your revenge when he/she is in a good mood go for balancing the scale… by making him/her to do the dishes, cleaning, laundry & use him/her as a servant by your orders in sweet words:)