Ah swissgirl, there's alot of "should"s in life. I should've studied more for the exam, I should've gone on a diet, I should've done alot of things...but in reality sh*t happens!

Yes they should've talked, but they didn't cause they were so preoccupied with their lives and they just got carried away. It happens. I should've stayed in contact with alot of friends, but we drifted apart. Again it happens!!

And he was probably interested in the new woman just because he was trying to run away from home. If he had met a whiskey bottle instead of the new lady, he would've become an alcoholic, if he met a poker game instead he would've become a gambler. Sometimes cheating is not about "who" he's cheating with...but about "why" he's doing it.

I'm not trying to justify cheating, but I'm trying to prove my point that we shouldn't be all self-righteous because situation like these can happen to us, and I for one can't be sure of what I would do, so I can't judge people for doing something which one day I might do (hopefully not!!).

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield