Ok as much as I'm anti-affairs and anti-straying I am, I must say affairs are alot more complicated than they seem. It's not just "oh I got bored of my spouse", alot of factors come into play, and although on their own they seem trivial but add them up and u got a serious problem.

For example, the husband and wife are both so pre-occupied with their lives, she's raising the kids and taking care of the house, while he's busy at work. Eventually, they started to drift apart and just didn't communicate well thinking that everything was ok when everything was not ok. The husband starts spending time with a beautiful co-worker alot, and slowly she starts to seduce him. He starts dreading to go home to deal with all the problems he has, and so spends more time with her to run away from those problems. Ultimately, he cheats on his wife.

In this scenario, yes the husband was wrong for doing so, but I can understand why he did it and it seems like any of us can be put in his shoes and most of us would do what he did. So bad things do happen. It's inevitable. But the question lies in whether the marriage is strong enough to be able to forgive him, learn from BOTH of their mistakes and become a stronger, more communicative couple.

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