thatguy, what ur saying reminded me of something I took in Pysch class. It's called Fundamental Attribution Error. Basically, it's that we tend to blame people's actions more on the personality rather than the situation, which is wrong cause sometimes it might be a good person in a bad situation who ends up doing something bad, so we assume oh that's because he was a bad person not cause it was a bad situation. However, if we ourselves were in that situation, we would blame the circumstance and not ourselves! Ha!

Well doing anything for 20 years can get boring, that's why people should keep spicing things up instead of just sleeping with someone else and then saying "oh it got boring". People just love taking the easy convenient way out and then justifying it ;)

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield