I see is when people stray way off the topic and start talking about coffee schedules and coffee/bar dates in a perfectly discussable (i just invented this word) topic and fill the whole thread with their dating/etc episodes.

This puts off other members and specially the starter of the thread as the next time he writes a thread he would definitely remember what happened to the previous one.
Everyone has the right to express their opinion but no one should be allowed to hijack the thread. Though there are things that I dont agree with like personal attacks and this I stated yesterday as well in mi83's thread.
Lets keep QL as a forum, strictly professional not personal.