Honestly Jauntie, I find older people or even same age as him, asking questions, the least I can describe is "immature and naive".

But I also fully understand how any person needs affirmation and assurance when they are moving to a completely new region and culture.

This is why I take it easy with them, knowing and feeling their anxiety.

That's all..:) umm, what’s with the harsh lady tonight…)
Salam