Sorry for ur loss BP, but ur totally right, there is a huge difference. Finding out a child isn't urs doesn't only have to do with the evolutionary theory of "not having ur genes passed on", it's also about the deception, lies and false hope u were living in. Some people, however, decide to live past that and move on...I couldn't imagine how hard it would be.

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong :P - Garfield