"...I'll manage to move on with my life". do not be so sure, and do not think that it is so easy... in a worst case scenario, FDM also will manage to move on with her life (really, she is not going to die, isn't she!).. the question is what it will take to move on...it depends on the strength of your feelings.. for some people divorce (or breaking up some long deep relationship)is the way to freedom.. for others is the way to the Lonely Hearts Club...maybe forever...