many thanks to all of you who posted and replyed.
today morning I had to take my baby to ER coz he has fever and I was worried.he's not OK and the fever still 37.5 (was 38.4 this morning)

didn't have time to discuss with my husband but during lunch I tried.....teers......
he said that's the final decision....teers.....
I don't know what to do, I was expecting him to change his mind but .....teers....can't write.....feel very bad....teers.....