Oryx, I know people who say yes to their partners to avoid conflict and then end up doing what they want. I just find that silly, it's like dealing with a small child, a marriage like that would just suck cause there's no openness or sharing, it's just a big game.

As for smoke, I wonder if ur married, cause I doubt any woman would stand that type of thinking, it seems to me u don't care what ur wife thinks about what car to buy or where to live, as if she is only another possession. Marriage is about SHARING, that includes sharing decisions, yes u'll be driving the car but atleast take her opinion, make her feel like she's a part of ur life! So tell me what would u do if ur wife got a better job in another country with better pay and position and u hated that country and didn't want to move ?

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