Submissiveness is the trait of being willing to yield to the will of another person or a superior force.

But if he is telling you to do nasty things are you still gonna do it? Of course not..right? Being submissive will depend on the situation and the reasons behind it. We should analyze things and understand them before doing it, I hope you will understand my point..but if we will not see this thing every marriages will end up in divorce or annulment. Yes marriage is a matter of give and take, of listening more than the talking, compromising...etc.
Submissiveness does not mean being a martyr.
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Without work, all life goes rotten. But when work is soulless, life stifles and dies.
- Albert Camus