Noooooooooooooooooo...diamondgirl skydives into topic to speak up for women............

Submissive? Why? Buttercup...hello!!! Is that really OK with you?

Cornellian, I most strongly DISAGREE with what the person you were arguing about said. This need not be the case at all! Firstly one has to select one's partner very carefully. Who on earth would want someone always deciding everything. Ugh.

In a marriage I think that each one has his/her opinions that are equally valid. If a situation arises where there is a difference of opinion on what to do then the couple should discuss it and come to a compromise that both can be happy about. It is possible to do that.

And, eh, excuse me...if the woman works in the home that does NOT disqualify her from sharing in the decision making process. So all house wives are chopped liver because they work at home? C'mon!

Cornellian, it most certainly does not have to be the way the person said it to you. Even if others do that, YOU do not have to.

Climbs down from soapbox and turns off volume...

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