me too i see it as a matter of cultures.but in a good realtionship no one should dominate the other.we should be partners,working and walking hand in hand.i think it is easy to realize with respect and understanding and love.my man can advice me but the final desicion is mine and i will not allow him to take desicions for me because at least it is my life and i have to feel comfortable with the desicions i took.sometimes they may be wrong,ok,but nobody is perfect and so also the meaning of a husband may not be the right one in and for any ocasion,so the best thing is to talk,to listen and then decide together.
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