You did the right thing man and I'm really proud of you. I would hate my wife or my girl friend if i find out that she was cheating on me. Giving her all of my love and attention and the end that is the end? If I want her to behave the same way it won't be unfair if i will do these things and ask her later if she did it, why?

I'm really happy for you and just don the right things and don't care about the look of the people as what you did is not wrong.

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)