hi Jag
I once thought of running a workshop for socially challenged men for the reasons you stated.
some of the behvaviour couldn't be more repellent if you tried!
nothing worse than someone staring at you like a crazed vulture
or after talking to you for a while wants to control and posess you.
I have spoken to some guys and felt physically anxious in desperation of getting away.
loads of them in Palomas... always terrifying in there. :)