I know many cases when husband first didn't want kids (many guys feel this way at the beginning of the marriage, not everyone is ready for taking this responsibility right away), and later, when the wife got pregnant "on purpose accidently ", husband fell in love with his child.. specially it happens towards daughters for some reason..lol.. (It’s common: Husbands desire to have sons, but they love daughters much more)...
As for your case Hammer, I think it is female’s nature to desire kids, it is an instinct, which is sitting deeply in your blood. And I think only some serious negative circumstances may prevent woman from having children. This is the female’s primary mission on the Earth – to produce kids. So it should happen sooner or later (unless, as I said, something prevents woman from having children). So go for it, have a baby.. and better do it sooner than later, trust me...If you love your husband, why would you destroy your marriage, since anyway you will have kids at some point.. so why to wait?
If it is your husband the one who doesn’t want to have kids.. well.. there are three options, i guess: to give up a baby for your husband’s sake; or to get pregnant anyway, hoping he will love the child; or just “pack your stuff”...you decide.. hard to suggest...