someone pls tell me when its ok to hit a guy cos i damn well will if he screws up... i'll hit "lightly" too . What d hell !!! some ppl agree its ok to hit a woman?? i think its insane ... wheather hard, lightly or just raising a hand to strike is a complete insult . If a guy raises a hand to hit i would consider it a huge insult , cos u even thought about hitting, teh u must be outta your mind. If there was a rule that says girls can hit husbands too "lightly" then it will be justified. Dnt tell me if a wife is not obediant u can , husbands r not that obedient or holy either... Long and short of the story ... ITS TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE TO HIT OR EVEN THINK OF HITTING A WOMAN!!