sometimes the roles are pre determined by nature. A man will be a man and a woman will be a woman. unless we decide to go against the laws of nature. just like a man cannot be a woman how much he tries to do so and similarly a woman cannot take a man's role.

The only problem is nature has told us our roles that we have to play but we intentionally try to tread on the opposite side thinking we can withstand the incoming traffic from the opposite side. But nature always takes the best course of action,
hurry up guys i need to study some feed forward and feed backword control.