my question is who do you prefer for marriage?

THE WEST
The kind, handsome, smart rich guy that you date and have sex with before you get married to him. Chances are he might not be the one or he might not be so GREAT in bed. So you move on in search of that Gentleman and even if you find him there is no guarantee he will not have flings

The Muslims
The guy that your parents tell you is handsome, rich and you have never met him before and have no idea whether he smokes or drinks or or or
will be your husband. Though he can turn out to be not what you have heard or have been told

The choice is yours. Choose what you like