I would call the other female and tell who I am. Get her side of the story (it's not her fault if he is cheating on me) then, I would confront him. If he isn't truthful with me then it is adios amigo!!! Once a cheater always a cheater (usually). If he really wanted me he would do everything in his power to fix the situation but it would take a lot for me to trust him again. This little Cajun girl has a very big temper....

Lisa