Indiantoty... my guess would be you come from a "superior class" (or at least is what you think). Ignorance like yours has the world full if inequities. No one is superior and class os casts system are an invention of humankind not, as you suggest, something natural.
"Learn to live with it"? I guess Indians should have learned to live with being a colony of the British empire instead of trying to be a free nation.
I think you are the one who needs to learn to live with the idea that all human beings are equal and that those who think nannies are good enough to take care of your own kids but not good enough to be treated respectfully are plain idiots.