I'm cool, not angry at all. Just posing a few questions to make people think about what they are actually saying.
religion sets the rules for relationships(or likes to think it does) and was mentioned in the OP.
If any female relation of mine who wasn't in a committed relationship, regardless of marriage, thought you were worth a bit of pre-marital 'how's your father' then who am I to say she's wrong?

This all springs from jealousy doesn't it guys? Come on you can be honest we're all men here. Let's count bedpost notches shall we. lol

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.