We don't have the choice Owen, the same heart that falls in love without telling you, the same heart that makes you for once happy ... can also betray you and all of a sudden do the opposite. Do we really have control on this muscle? I don't think so .. it is even beating without an interference from the person him/herself ....

I guess that our hearts decide sometimes and let it to our minds thinking of something, to ourselves doing something about the sequences of this irrepressible heart actions ...